mother needs help, desperately
DEATH OF A MOTHER, MCFD/CHILDWELFARE
CORRUPTION AND LEGAL KIDNAPPING
I HAD NO CHOICE BUT TO GO PUBLIC,- see above video YOUTUBE link- AFTER 200 EMAILS TO LAWYERS, EVERY SINGLE MEDIA OUTLET...NO ONE IS LISTENING. THIS IS A
HUGE ISSUE IN BC....PLEASE IF YOU CAN HELP, CONTACT ME, ALSO MY FACEBOOK IS "https://www.facebook.com/mcfdlegalkidnapped" THANK YOU FOR READING
MY 3 CHILDREN....SO MANY AMAZING FUN TIMES WEVE HAD, SO MUCH LOVE, SO MANY LEARNING EXPERIENCES, TEACHING BAD, GOOD AND MAKING RIGHT AND WRONG DECISIONS....TRYING, LOVING, LAUGHING AND BEING PROUD, BEING A MOTHER IS THE BEST JOB IN THE WORLD.
until its taken from you for messing up....
and sometimes messing up doesn't mean drinking or using drugs, messing up can be staying in a cycle of abuse, a bad relationship with a drug user, an addict...a psychopath, and yet you love them and try to fix them, you try to be the best mom as well as taking care of a man who is abusive because you dont know where else to go, and what to do, you are scared, so you stay....you stay for the kids, because you think they need a dad (yet he isnt one) and you stay out of love because thats what you were taught growing up, to stick by your partner through tough times, hoping they get better.....and so you stay. Because you dont know there is help out there somewhere, and you dont know how to be pro-actuve yet, you push everyone away...You stay because where else would you go when he has the money, and now you dont have anyone except him....so you stay! You take the help by allowing the ministry into your life, and they never leave as they rack up things against you and in the eyes of mcfd....you no longer deserve to be a parent.... We all make bad stupid choices in our lives, stupid decisions we can learn from and move forward from....I have learned!
I am First Nations, and Identify as such, as well as my kids, my son is in the Ab-Ed program in school. HOWEVER, my daughter is NOT allowed to be First Nations, or have culture, family or community, that has been taken from her! My child is not allowed to have family, or any connection to us, we are denied sending even a card for holidays, and they have sent back gifts to me! NO contact! I regret my decisions then, regret not listening to everyone. Sometimes it takes a few messes.....to wake up, and yet still as people, we ALL have the capacity to change and realize what our mistakes were, change our behavior and be a better person, meet better people and love again. NO one is listening, no one cares....My children have never been hurt or abused in my care, and now being abused in fostercare! No one cares.
I have worked my butt off to do this, to show that I am not there anymore, I dont need to be weak and to be mistreated, I dont need to be hated and I dont deserve to be without my child for the rest of my life. I wish I could go back and change the past but I cant, however I have learned, I can only move forward and keep going which is what Im doing. My son needs me here, to be his mother, to show him the right thing, to support him in life, and to be his biggest supporter, in hockey and boxing....and advice, cooking and being someone he can rely on. I am, I will.
I wrote this in 2015, and added the pic this year, I emailed it to her, although she isnt able to check her mail and that hopefully one day she will get all the emails I sent her...I talk to her in emails, tell her what Im cooking or what we are doing, about our days and my dreams, thoughts.
Im generally a very positive, outgoing person, fun, athletic, energetic and very outdoorsy. I have a great attitude even in hard times and try and focus on fun, right now with my son. As hard as things are, Im not a quitter, although I have wanted to....I love my children more then anything in the world, I am strong, and I know Im a good woman and mother before anything. I need help and cannot do this alone, I have very few people to talk to and feel alone in this battle. My girl needs her mommy , her family....and Im not giving up! I love you...wherever you are sweetheart! xox